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Old Sep 05, 2014, 06:53 PM
arich62 arich62 is offline
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Originally Posted by The Skeezyks View Post
Hello arich62: Thanks for this post. And congratulations on having sorted out all of these thoughts! I'm in my mid 60's & married. But I have been "transsexual" my whole life. I just have always kept it suppressed. (It's a long story.) Anyway when I read your comment regarding having suppressed your feminine side while doing the things your wife enjoys, I couldn't help but sympathize. I frequently have the same experience.

Anyway, I just wanted to say I'm glad you were able to work through your grief regarding RW's death as well as those other things that have been bothering you. I hope you will be able to maintain this positive trend!

By the way, I'm always open to Personal Messages should you ever want to talk privately with regard to LGBT-related issues or concerns.
I hope so too. It was very difficult and still have to work at it and talking about it I worry could give me a relapse so probably won't say too much more about RW and my nervous breakdown. I think being heard and getting angry are two of the important keys. I gather there are a lot of men/ tg's like us. I have visited many TG sites over the years found so many different kinds of personalities with all kinds of different goals. I guess we each have something tailor made for our individual needs. It sucks though to have to oppress it which many of us have to do, while at the same time know how we need our wives, especially as we get older.