I hope so too. It was very difficult and still have to work at it and talking about it I worry could give me a relapse so probably won't say too much more about RW and my nervous breakdown. I think being heard and getting angry are two of the important keys. I gather there are a lot of men/ tg's like us. I have visited many TG sites over the years found so many different kinds of personalities with all kinds of different goals. I guess we each have something tailor made for our individual needs. It sucks though to have to oppress it which many of us have to do, while at the same time know how we need our wives, especially as we get older.