I know I am not the only onde having an hard time with social situations...but I wonder how it is for other people.
There is no subforum for these kind of problems. So I will write here trying to get some feedback on some this matter.

I don't like small stores. I hate everytime a shop employer comes to me to offer help, I just feel like going away from the store imediatly. It is the all thing, talking to a stranger, have someone trying to influence my choices it's very unconfortable.

But I have problems in many other situations, I feel very embarassed, observed, judge and it is hard to talk.

I have a very limited group of people with I can talk without problems.

At college I may speak to people normaly, but at instance, one of the worst things are the breaks. When people gather with whom they like the most and go somewhere... By that time, since nobody asked me to join the groups, many times I stay alone.
I might know that most of them are in the students room. But it is very hard to go in there. If I enter I can't stay for a long time. I immediatly feel observed, unwanted, and judged for trying to spend time with people who probably don't want me around and have their own private conversation and subjects they don't want to share with me.

So I might think about aproach them, but these thoughts and these feelings are bigger than me. And I just go to next class room door and I wait by there.

If they aproach me is better because then I know I AM not bothering them with my presence. And it is much more easier to talk.