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Originally Posted by HazelGirl
She does this a lot. And I always shrug it off. I know she's scatter-brained and gets stressed out when she has too much going on. And so I always try to just move on. She is probably confused and angry that I am complaining this time when I have never complained before.
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I don't think you are a jerk and as long as you were polite about telling here you felt hurt, you had every right to. One issue many of us have is trust and abandonment. It is possible she has not responded because she feels really bad. Remember we are all here with our own issues. However, it was good that you expressed your feelings to her in a non-hurtful way. Now it is up to her to process them.
Maybe send her a follow up note, just to say even though you were hurt you still value her and hope that everything is ok with her..... open the door but don't apologize.
Just a suggestion
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“Even on my weakest days
I get a little bit stronger” - Sarah Evans
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“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.”
- Steve Maraboli
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