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Old Sep 05, 2014, 09:33 PM
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I think, given your childhood, you just didn't bond closely with them. And sometimes it takes years for us to relate to our parents. Sometimes it is best for folks with toxic parents to stay away. However, in your case, a response now and then might be nice for them--and for you to see if they respond in a way that's not hurtful to you.