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Sep 06, 2014, 01:28 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2014
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 98
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I have stopped speaking to most of my family. I'm not mad I've just chosen peace of mind. Recently I reconnected with a cousin I hadn't spoke to in years. We have dinner plans in a few days.
Here's my issue. About 12yrs ago when her mother was ill I stopped by with a friend to see her. My girlfriend stayed in the living room with my Uncle while I went upstairs with my cousin. A few years later I started hearing from other people that she was telling people my friend stole a tv from the living room. My friend is 5ft tall and wears a size "0". That day she had on a fitted outfit and was carrying a very small clutch bag. Plus my Uncle was there. When I spoke to her today about dinner she brought it up. I told her it didn't happen but she insist it did. Here is my question. Should I offer to pay her for the tv?
She says the tv was about the size of cell phone and therefore could have been put in a small purse. My girlfriend is the V.P. of H.R. for a major company and makes a very good salary. We've known each other for years and I find it hard to believe she would ever steal anything. Honestly I don't want to deal with this but I'm trying to be positive. What would you do? 
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