I've noticed she's been doing this more lately. I've been going to her 4 years now. One session she even started looking at a bottom of a shoe. Should I bring it up and if so how do I bring it up? When she does it I've been kind of pausing and waiting for her to finish cleaning her nails or looking at the shoe but I feel kind of awkward and like I'm not being listened to.

One of the multitude of reasons that I see her is because I don't stand up for myself and I keep wondering if she's testing me lol

Thanks!