Hello, Moon Pigeon.
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Originally Posted by moon pigeon
It was as if there was only this one method, and even when it didn't work, she was bound and determined to make it fit.
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She only had one tool, therefore it had to be the right one.
Over the years CBT has done little or nothing for me. A certain percentage of people are not going to derive much benefit from it, and I believe serious researchers understand this.
Alternatives: Person/Client-Centered Therapy? Dialectical Behavior Therapy? Do-it-yourself? Given your background, you are in a good position to take charge of your own approach.
If I had a better grasp of my family history, I'd try to construct a "family diagram" (genogram) to gain potential insight into myself in that constellation of personalities.
Wishing you success in your search for something that works.
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My dog

mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.