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Originally Posted by Middlemarcher
Nice analogy! I have a tendency to do the same with a lot of new endeavors (new hobbies, work stuff, diet, exercise, and also, ah, romantic encounters), so it resonates with me. Wishing you well with your climb--
Climb Mount Fuji,
O snail,
But slowly, slowly.
- Kobayashi Issa
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Appreciate it! My friend was very understanding... at least for a while. I'm starting to feel more and more uncomfortable with her. She said she was perfectly understanding about my needing to have lots of time and space to myself, but then she'll ask if I want to do stuff with her at random times.
I feel very self-assured in my ability to say 'no.' And that's exactly what I said to her. That's my choice right now. I've said it before and I'll say it again, doing sexual things has made me feel a LOT. But it has NEVER made me happy. And I feel confident that not doing anything is the right thing to do.