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Originally Posted by silver tree
Does your autism affect your social skills do you think? I know aspergers can affect interpreting facial expressions and things like sarcasm etc. but do you feel at little socially detached in conversations?
The prostitutes don't spend any time with you and no one can go purely on the physical. Plus, like Hverts said, they want the business so will tell you what you want to hear, just like shop assistance tell you you look nice in clothes you try on in their shop etc. I wouldn't tell any potential female that you sleep with prostitutes either !! If they ask then you can't lie but don't volunteer that information. I would say it would put most women off.
Friends and family will also often be kind to spare your feelings so if you are going to ask their opinion, go to the closest, most critical and brutally honest person you know and ask them to critique what's wrong with you and why this keeps happening? Maybe chose a female and a male to ask, to get both gender perspectives, and tell them not to hold back. You might not like the answer but at least you will know if your the problem and that *gives you a base to work from to improve those things (*maybe say something like that when asking them to tell you what they think)
I didn't look at these so they might be rubbish but they are just an example of the stuff you can find on-line (and I bet you tube have vids)
How to Flirt With a Girl the Alpha Way: 13 Steps
Flirting 101 by SIBG.com |
A friend's father once told me I was a coward and a ******, when I was about 3 years old. The other day a woman on a forum on the web told me I was a typical nice guy and don't deserve a woman after she complained about how horrible men are and I told her she shouldn't date scum and then say all men are like that. I also said to her that she was one of those women who always like bad boys but then complain and that she is too scared to try and date a quiet guy because she want's thrills in her life. So, she let me have it, big time. I guess I was asking for it. They also said guys like me are creeps who are looking to hurt women and the type that always stare at them in the shops and stuff. They said guys like me are nerds and secretly hate women. I don't hate women, at least I think I don't. Maybe they were right all along, and I just don't notice it in myself, IDK anymore
. If it's true then I deserve to die for being such a horrible human being/creature/thing/monster.
These articles and things are telling you how to be an alpha male, I think I've probably read a million of these already. I am not one and probably never will be. My dad and my friend's dad have been emasculating me since childhood and they broke me many years ago already. I've been damaged all my life by their vile criticisms. I didn't even know what was happening to me, I was just a little boy.