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Originally Posted by silver tree
I am sorry you have been through those things  I would suggest that you don't go to your father or anyone else who is likely to just abuse you. People from on-line forums don't know you properly so anything nasty they say doesn't count either imo. I meant ask a female friend you have? and more about how you come across socially and what makes you appear more 'friends material' to women and not bf . What you could work on to seem more sexually attractive to girls, and any general little mistakes you are making or things you could improve on. You have to pressure someone to be honest I think, and let them know it is to help you understand yourself better and you wont be offended etc..
Do you think you find it hard in social situations or when chatting a girl up? x |
Yeah, I find it hard in social situations, I often don't know the words to say to a girl to show her that I'm interested.
I think I've got some problems:
- My Asperger's makes me seem really cold and unemotional, even though I have all the feeling inside of me,
- I'm fat too, after a horrible childhood experience, before which I was anorexic - I have something wrong in my body stomach wise
- Up until a few months ago I actually couldn't afford taking a girl on a date, I had no car either,
- I never went to parties and things really because my dad didn't want to visit anybody anymore since a few years ago, so I got really isolated from everyone,
- That has carried over into my life too, and my mom's - both of us have no friends,
- I just seem to lack the natural "talent" others seem to have in social situations
- Many more issues I haven't detected yet, probably.
So, I don't know. Maybe my whole life is wrong, everything. It would literally be easier to die and be born as another person again, I think
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