I'm going to try to make this short!

Around 2 months ago i began speaking to a guy on twitter. (he's 28, i'm 20). He is in a small band, so we began speaking after i listened to their music. We chatted for hours that night and exchanged numbers a few days later. We began texting every night, he would inititiate it.

It was friendly for around the first 3 weeks, then it became flirty, quickly turning sexual. I didn't feel uncomfortable in the slightest. We began sexting a lot, he sent me some photos, i never sent anything back, he never asked or hinted. We also shared a lot of personal stuff, he told me stuff about his life (if it was true) and i shared stuff about mine. It was going great up until about 2 weeks ago.

We hadn't spoken in a few days, so i sent him a quick text, which he replied, but it wasn't the same. He wasn't flirty or sexual, strictly friendly. After that, if i wanted to speak, i had to contact him. It seemed he had lost interest.

I decided that i was just going to leave it, not contact him texting or on social media, but unfortunately i sent him a text while i was drunk. It wasn't anything too bad, just that he was brilliant to talk to. I sent a quick text regarding that the next morning, which he ignored. It's imessage so it lets me know.

Basically, I've spoke to a friend in real life about this who seems to think that he only began speaking to me because i was anti-social, and that he was pretty much just using me for the sex talk, hoping i would meet up with him. As harsh as it is, there's a part of me that believes this.

We stay about 6 hours away from each other, so it's not that far. At the beginning, he was extremely nice to me, picking up on things about me, my self esteem and such. He even went on my profile a lot, favorited things, obviously so it would alert me.

The fact is, his band will play a gig here eventually.

If i don't contact him on social media, text him and just continue posting on mine as if things are normal, is that the best option?

I hate the feeling that if this is true, he's just threw me away and now he's moving on to some other young girl, who unfortunately might actually meet up with him. I may have low self esteem but i won't put up with any of that. Of course, sending an angry text isn't the best option.

I may be completely wrong about him

Any advice? Be as blunt as possible. Thank you