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Old Sep 06, 2014, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Alone & confused View Post
This is just a thought....but, as a woman, if I was worried or convinced that my husband might cheat, the LAST thing I would ask him to do is get fixed. Because to me that would be like saying "ok, go have sex with someone else now since you can't get them pregnant!" It would help reduce the chances of getting caught. (keep in mind that I may have a screwed-up way of thinking!)
That is where my mind went, too!

I wonder if she thinks that the vasectomy will reduce desire. I know nothing about this situation except for this post, but I worry that this surgery is being used as a punishment or controlling method in this case.