Okay, this sounds weird but I didn't tell my husband about all the details of my sex life before him. I didn't do anything that wild or anything, but I did not go into exactly numbers or whatever. I just said there had been "a few". He said the same thing. I don't really care to know his every detail. I've been happily married for 28 years and just haven't seen the need to be COMPLETELY honest about everything. It just gets rid of your guilt and hurts the other party.