My husband grouses about the cost of therapy on a regular basis. I finally got so tired of it that I went to a different bank and opened my own checking account that's just for my therapy, and I put a minimum of one session cost in it from each paycheck. If I work any overtime, I put my overtime pay in it too. Now that he can't "see" the money coming out of our joint account, he doesn't mention it as much. Although the other day he told me he didn't like that I paid for talking about my dreams. He doesn't understand dream work at all, and won't let me explain. Sometimes I think he feels 'cheated on' emotionally or something because I am very emotionally invested in my therapy. Recently I just HAD to talk to somebody about how hurt I was feeling over that whole thing with t not having a professional will (she since resolved that problem for me thank goodness!) so I talked to my husband about it, and he did not get it AT ALL. He just kept shaking his head at me like I'm doing something wrong making that stupid 'click-click' noise with his tongue.