HazelGirl,
I wish I could ask T for a reduced rate, but my rate is dictated by my insurance company and my copay is pretty high.

I imagine your asking if I can ask my wife to be patient until disability comes through. I think she tries, but it's the unknown of whether or not it will ever happen is what makes my wife a little crazy.

We'll get through it. It's really hard and frustrating to have this discussion again and again.

Artemis, I really wish I received some kind of pay where I could do what you do. Whole I was receiving unemployment, I did just that. But now any money coming into the house is my wife's paycheck or a check that comes to both of us.