{{{{{{{{{{Kathy}}}}}}}}}}}}}

I've noticed it, too. I'm sorry it's getting you down. But how could you possibly think it's YOU that's the bad one!? No way! You're too sweet and sensitive!

Don't forget that when someone points a finger at you, there's three more fingers on that same hand pointing back at the owner of that first finger! They're too busy making a big deal out of the speck in your eye to notice they have a log in theirs!

Don't internalize critizisms or arguments, Kathy. You're a sweet person!