My fiance and I don't have issues about the cost of therapy...yet.

He does, however, have issues about therapy and psychiatry. He doesn't understand why I go back and forth between loving my T and Pdoc and hating them. He doesn't understand why I seemed to be okay when I played computer games 18hrs a day and now that I'm in therapy I'm in a crisis every other week. He also doesn't agree with psychiatric medication. My T and Pdoc have both tried talking to him. He said it helped, but there are still days when he's anti T and Pdoc.

I think, like Soccer Mom suggested, maybe having your T take some time to explain things to your wife might help. Maybe there might be some ways that she can help you so she feels a part of this area of your life?