Yea from what I'm reading, I have to agree with the group. Don't tell people should be your objective. Something I like to do is bait a bit. Since it's such a taboo subject apparently, even in 2014, I find it much better to describe the symptoms as opposed to actually coming out with it. Or use the word spectrum. I tend to be more on the bipolar spectrum of things. Finding interesting ways to say politically correct things about your mental health can be a very fun and interesting challenge. I also think that when someone is able to piece it together what you are saying, you've probably made a friend!