My first name, pronounced with a special intonation that conveys the depth of feeling on the part of a boy or man... a huge turn-on. Turn-on is not the right term, no... rather, it is just one of the most moving experiences out there for me.

I do not understand why people talk dirty. I wanted to understand and back when I was on OKC, I tried, a couple of times, to have what can be dubbed phone sex to get a grasp on what other people were doing. I found it totally stupid. I mean, really. Why would these guys want to call me dirty words for their own sake is beyond me; from my end, it was stupid and a little amusing. I cannot understand how it can be a turn-on, but I also, on the other hand, cannot understand why some women find it what is called "degrading". Weird and kind of dumb, yes, but degrading - no.

I think I simply do not have enough imagination to appreciate those things. I do not mean to say that people who do that are stupid (and especially one of them, outside of that, seemed totally reasonable and an interesting person) but just that these things seem stupid, subjectively, to me.