Drugs or alcohol are not issues I have, but I still would not see a therapist who thought they got to dictate how I came to appointments or if they got upset over anything at me. Sh, sui or anything really. It is simply not their place. The only result I can see from what the op's therapist did, would cause a client to lie rather than not. Further, the therapist is being paid. I do not believe a client can waste a therapist's time. A client can waste their own time or money, but not he time of the therapist.
See whatever therapist you wish, I simply would not. The therapist does not get to control me.