Yeah, they piss me off, too. Not sure how I've managed to be 2 serious relationships, to be honest. I'm rough around the edges, I guess. I workout, I'm a guitarist, and yet I'm also a bit of a geek, into German/languages and very familiar computer hardware/software. I'm nice, I'm told. I'm understanding, caring, loyal, and protective. All I know is that the 2 relationships I have been in, tell me that being decent can pay off... I can't be all that bad if I was kinda stalked by the second one and not just for a few weeks either. Maybe it's just the kinda women you're getting to know? From speaking to women online, I've noticed that some of them complain about the guys in their area; as though they're surrounded by idiots; I imagine it's the same way for us blokes.

"When I bring it up, they say I'm a typical nice-guy, a creep, a coward, a ******, etc." - to be honest with you, if that's the sort of rude morons you're hanging out with, you're probably better off looking elsewhere. (unless you're asking the question in an aggressive way)