Looks like your mental issues are blocking your brain to think clearly.... I am sorry to hear that. I am guessing so simply because it happens to me a lot and the way you explain this is similar to how I feel...

What you can do is try to take one issue at the time. Even if I know thats what I have to do I can't do it on my own though...so I won't expect you to do it on your own either. Talk to your bf. If he is not the best person to guide you through it think out loud to him about one problem and mention the possible solutions..

Make a priority list... well...essentially you don't need to make a list...just choose the most urgent issue and focus on that.

Reward yourself when you've succesfully taken care of one problem... my favourite is chocolate. ^^

And about your salary... I am sure your work can find a to pay you until you have a working bank account again.