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Originally Posted by Zwangsstörung
Yeah, they piss me off, too. Not sure how I've managed to be 2 serious relationships, to be honest. I'm rough around the edges, I guess. I workout, I'm a guitarist, and yet I'm also a bit of a geek, into German/languages and very familiar computer hardware/software. I'm nice, I'm told. I'm understanding, caring, loyal, and protective. All I know is that the 2 relationships I have been in, tell me that being decent can pay off... I can't be all that bad if I was kinda stalked by the second one and not just for a few weeks either. Maybe it's just the kinda women you're getting to know? From speaking to women online, I've noticed that some of them complain about the guys in their area; as though they're surrounded by idiots; I imagine it's the same way for us blokes.
"When I bring it up, they say I'm a typical nice-guy, a creep, a coward, a ******, etc." - to be honest with you, if that's the sort of rude morons you're hanging out with, you're probably better off looking elsewhere. (unless you're asking the question in an aggressive way)
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I've got to admit, here where I live everyone is money crazy. When you got bucks, the ladies are on you immediately. I've had barmaids here flirt with me just because a gave her a large tip, and I happened to wear my branded clothes that day. People say women aren't after money, I guess not all of them, but you're going to have to search long and hard to find such a girl. All the girls I've met are going out either with a rich guy, married to some rich guy, live on some huge farm with a rich farmer's boy who inherited the place. A guy like me doesn't even stand a chance. My family was poor, everything I wanted I either couldn't get or had to work ten years for to get, by which time something new came out and all you get is "sorry, we don't make that model anymore" the salesman will even laugh and say "that was before my time sir, you're talking about something that's been obsolete for 10 years already, hahahaha". The only girlfriend I'll ever get is a homeless one living on the street, a drug-addict or a blind one that drinks methylated spirits, because it's all I can afford. Well, at least she's low maintenance, a bottle of methylated spirits is only $1-2.
Our country is really pathetic, the people here do anything for money. It's a culture that was created by our corrupt government. It has siphoned down into everything. Everyone here is some sort of con-artist or schemer to get money out of you. Poor people here will even steal metal lettering off the front of your house just to go and sell it for a couple of cents as scrap, and then they go and buy a cheap drug called tik (a variation of crystal meth with all sorts added - rat poison, toilet cleaner, chlorine bleach, potassium permanganate, you name it) with that money. That's the poor side.
The rich side - everyone drives a BMW or some kind of SUV. They drive other people off the road, flash lights, pay off traffic officers to get out of speeding tickets - that's the norm here. When you've got money, you're somebody and above the law. The law is for lowlifes like me who can't afford to rise above it. Our president just spent the equivalent of $25 million of taxpayers' money on his private residence!
Celebrities here don't go to prison, no matter what they've done. They are gods to the people here, just because they are rich and were on TV or something. When corrupt government officials here get caught stealing taxpayers' money they don't go to prison they get a golden handshake (a multi-million dollar retirement package)!
Sorry for the lengthy post, but I had to paint a picture of the pathetic and sorry state of affairs here where I live - people praise money here like some kind of god. Needless to say, a poor guy like me doesn't get very far. Never mind a girlfriend, that's just one aspect of it.
I'm seriously considering emigrating.