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Originally Posted by pheobe67
Well if texting or calling is or crisis only what did you expect. In my country they only have the phone during work hours and are not allowed to reply via text as it's unprofessional. Throwing a tantrum because she was either busy or found it inappropriate to reply is plain bratty and when you are acting like that she should continue to ignore you. You're not meant to be reliant on your therapist it's unhealthy.
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did you even read my original post before getting on your high-horse? Or were you so eager to get up there that you thought you could skip it?
I am not reliant on her for a start. Secondly, if you know anything about therapy, you'll know reliance/dependence is an important stage of therapy, particularly with my background. Also if you'd taken a breath before launching into your holier than thou speech there, and actually knew me or my therapy or my story, then you'd know that my therapist does allow texting. Preferably in crisis only but she does let me text, she just won't reply if she feels it's a conversation needed to be had face to face.
Also, if I could control my "bratty tantrumming behaviour" I wouldn't need therapy would I? As my therapist always say " this is the work".
She should ignore me? That sounds therapeutic. What book is that from?