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Old Sep 07, 2014, 06:13 AM
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Hi Haley, how have you been doing? Congrats on getting the internship, I'm really proud of you and also very excited for you too! I just have a couple of questions to ask you okay? First, you're only in your early 20's, you've barely just begun your life, you're just starting to get your feet wet in the workforce, right? Like with this internship. Is your career important to you? If so, then, you really need to think long and hard about whether or not you are going to have a baby right now. First of, I would take the morning after pill. I don't think right this minute is the right time for a child, whether or not you plan to have one in the near future or not. I would think that it would be a much better idea, that if you do decide to have a child, you and your partner are married first, and have sat down and talked about it, and decided together. Don't start a life with a mistake. It's so much better when you can tell your child that they were conceived out of loved, and had been a planned pregnant, and obviously very wanted by both loving parents. And, believe it or not, it does make a difference to the children, to have their parents married, and be conceived while their parents were married. Too many people think now a days that that doesn't matter anymore, when in fact, to the children, it really does. In fact, it makes a huge difference having both parents in the home raising the kids. They are more likely not to get into trouble, and to finish H.S., and to go to college, to end up with better paying jobs. These are just some of the fact . I'm not trying to down single mothers, don't get me wrong. I have great respect for them, and the enormous job yhey v have to tackle on their own. I commend them! But, I'm sure that many of them had wished that their babies daddy's had stepped up to the plates, or possibly that they had waited until they were older, and more secure in their careers before they had become mothers, so they could better support their children if something like this (their significant other leaving) happened. Well, I just wanted to give you a few things to think about. Again, no disrespect meant towards single mothers, you women work harder than no other!! God Bless you!
Thanks for this!
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