Hello! Thanks for all your advice :-) The virginity was lost before I tried to get my book back. It was an antique. Anyway when I went to get my book I could see what type of person he was (I didn't do anything with him on that occasion).

Before meeting, I said I would tranfer him the money for sending the book, but he insisted I had to go to his place. When I met in person, he said he had acted that way because he really wanted to see me (but I know what this means, he wanted to play mind games with me so that I wouldn't break up with him). I accepted to go to his place because I had a friend going with me (I explained the break up situation to him), but he eventually had a last-minute errand and I had to go alone.