If we expect to go into therapy ... An interaction with another human being ... and have them to not respond with any feelings or emotions when we've done something harmful to ourselves and/or others and/or our own process ... Then what's the point of even being there?

I'm sorry, but I simply don't get or understand this line of supposed reasoning.

It seems quite preposterous (to me) for anyone to expect another human being to "control" what would seem to be a normal reaction (getting upset) to something that caused them concern about another human being they are connected with whether on a personal or professional level.