This thread is so interesting. Anger or other strong emotions weren't accepted in my home as a child and got you sent to a psychiatrist. I ended up turning it inward or (once in a very blue moon) exploding at inappropriate times. Still I've never gotten angry or yelled at my T or pdoc. They both have told me they've been screamed at by other clients though, so I guess it's not unusual and it makes so much sense. If you're never taught how to handle frustration and anger in a healthy way, then it would ultimately be either internalized or projected onto someone else. T's must be completely unfazed and almost welcoming of it, especially if you have always repressed anger. Saying I hate you is normal during typical emotional development, so I imagine your T didn't take it personally, much like a parent brushes it off when a kid or teenager says it. She's your safe place and knows it. It would make for a great discussion if you decide to continue with her...