I never show anger so the one time I got cross like you did by text she told me later, was good. She said I obviously found it safer than face to face. One day she hopes that I might actually get angry in a session. However, saying that I have a feeling she didn't reply either at the time. Hope you get through this and I wouldn't worry about being bratty by text. You clearly don't do it often and she does allow texts she obviously feels that this needs to be discussed in person. Do you think you might go back?