I guess I'm clueless too. I read about one person's hurt feelings but i haven't seen anything else excessively disturbing, to me anyway.
I'm not hurt, frustrated or angry either. I'm doing really well in fact. So, if you want my ear for bending, you know you've got it.
Take care of you
tina

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