that is very admirable. being in a relationship with a someone with mental health issues can be very challenging, but we also need supporters in our life to get through it. I think the decision should be up to her. are you really making her worse? or is this just your perception based on yur depressed thought process? does she have issues of her own that prevent her from making a healthy decision in this matter? these are just a few things to think about. take care.