Aw, don't talk about yourself that way. You just have really low self-esteem. That's a turn-off to most guys. They don't care why. I think you should work on your self worth more than worry about guys and losing your virginity. I don't know if you've subscribed to the self-esteem forum yet but I think you could start there.

I was exactly like you at your age. Most girls your age are self-concious to a point. But if you feel your friends are pretty then chances are you are too. Plus, that's not all that matters when it comes to sex, relationships, guys. It could be they sense your lack of confidence and low self-esteem.

I dated a guy once who was truly ugly but he had such confidence and charisma that he had no problem getting a date. I mean girls would throw themselves at him.

My point is, it's not all about looks, it really isn't, if you get two idiots who are attractive and put them together, then maybe.

You seem like a smart girl. More than likely, you're pretty. If you can find your self-esteem and self-worth, then you will notice a big change.

Don't sell yourself short. Doesn't matter where you come from. So maybe you work on yourself and forget about just losing your virginity for now. I know it's easier said than done, but if that's all you wanted then you could find a guy your age. You may not find him attractive, but you wouldn't be a virgin so I think it's more than that.

I might be twice your age but I remember what it's like to 17.

We were oversexed then. I think it's a hormonal teenage thing.

Anyway, good luck with everything and I hope you address your inner issues. I really don't want something like that to hinder anything in your life.