I relate to your post so so much. I have been seeing my T for 18 months and I know very little. I have asked a few things but she gets really annoyed and says how will this help me to know these things (like if she's married or has children). I also asked her if she had siblings one time very early on as we were discussing my very small family (I don't have siblings) and she was really cross. Really upset me and I felt bad for weeks after for overstepping her boundaries. Really pisses me off now. It's not that I'm asking anything really personal and it would kind of help me relate to her a bit better. I feel sad that she doesn't trust me or doesn't want to communicate with me unless it's within her frame. It just reinforces I am only a client. It hurts. Xx