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Originally Posted by Leah123
Well, you're asking if texting him fits within your stated goals.
No, it does not.
But clearly, you want to anyway, it feels good to feed the connection, so.... that's where it's at, right?
Which goal is more motivating: the stated one or the unstated one?
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This is what I really wanted to write but Leah did it better
You mentioned you wanted to "tone it down", so not texting would be consistent with this goal. Especially where you have romantic feelings for him I think it's very important for you to impose boundaries on yourself. Your T doesn't seem to do that. Maybe he wants to be nice or maybe he doesn't mind being the object of your affection. It doesn't really matter I suppose you just have to be clear about what it is you want.