Hi SadMommy

I'm very sorry you are going through this. I've been there myself like so many others have said trying to support you.

Right now you are feeling very low and blaming yourself, but a lot of that is because this man has beaten you down by his words and actions. He has no right to do that.

He took advantage of you and your past and used it to his advantage to do whatever he wants. He justifies himself by blaming you...coming up with ridiculous statements.

You need to take care of you and get yourself strong and you will see that he is not worth you taking on that blame and ridicule from him. You deserve a caring and nurturing man. You have failed at nothing...if anything you are a fighter and one that will only get stronger and tougher. You and your kids are most important and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Especially this pathetic hypocrite who thinks so much of himself. Tell him to put his own ring away and while he's at it ... have him put yours away to.

~E