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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom
"will I ever get the happy girl I met again back" I get that said to me a lot. and I usually remark "Oh, the one that did (insert insane, hurtful, or messed up thing here)? You can have her back if you want just give me about a week." and I stand there's smiling. Usually that's when he realized what he just said and tries to back track.
A lot of this seems like he's having issues accepting the adult he's become and at least partially blaming you for it. He needs a therapist of his own to deal with this and any stress that his or your issues bring to him. What did you guys do when you went out before.
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When we met we went to the movies a lot, that was our thing. We live in a small town so there isn't a whole lot to do. I was so independent when I met him and was for the longest time. I had to be growing up, workaholic parents that didn't give a crap about my mental illness and still don't. I even raised my sister and have given her a place to stay for years now. I did it all on my own and over the years I grew to rely on him to do a lot of things. Anyway, I try all of the time to go out and have fun with him. I don't have my own friends, his friends are my friends. About once a month I go and hang out with all of them, we all work together and get along great. Him and I do at least one thing on the weekend together unless I am doing really really bad.