Thanks Stopdog and Hazelgirl. Hazelgirl, yeah... that makes sense. I feel like some of my wariness towards new-T has to be based on the rotten experiences I had with old-Ts.... and maybe it would help if we talked through some of that (I hope). If nothing else, it would be a chance to see him react differently (I hope!!!) then the old Ts...

It does feel so weird to me though to need a T to "fix" the issues caused by old Ts... not good!