^Or get SSI if mental health issues prevent you from working and are likely to continue doing so, but if its more of a matter of not wanting to or just don't like it well you might have to choose between that and remaining in your home situation longer. You say you have a boyfriend...have you guys thought about potentially living together? that might be one idea but obviously only if that is something both of you want to otherwise rent can be expensive so having room-mates of some kind might be necessary.

I know too well though that moving out is easier said than done.