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Originally Posted by 8888an8888
for some reason thinking about her family... I'm pretty sure she has a husband, IDK about kids, I'm guessing probably no kids.
But it annoys me so much. GAH. People who love her and talk to her and know her a million times better than I do.
Heck, what do I even know about her?? Nothing. I can't bear not knowing anything about her. And I can't bear the idea of her having a family.
I feel so irritated by knowing nothing. What am I supposed to do? Oh yeah, the therapy's for me but I hate talking about myself.  |
I totally get what you're coming from.
Have you asked her to disclose a bit about herself? Maybe you could tell her that it would help you realize she's a real person? Make the relationship a bit more equal? That's what I told my T and she agreed to disclose some stuff. I'm sure I could have asked her more but I didn't to look like a weirdo.
I'm utterly fascinated by my T's life. Like, I wanna know what she has for breakfast, which radio station she listens to in her car, what's her favourite TV program, etc. It's ridiculous and yet so human.
Concerning her family, I'm pretty sure she has kids (I know she has a husband because, well, I've googled him, hum) but I've never asked her since I don't want to know. Because I feel jealous and knowing about her kids will only hurt me.