Travelinglady,
I haven't checked the other forum. I am using an app most of the time and use the basic 4 they show me. I'll login and do some research though and posts. Thank you. I know what he did was not right. I know I pushed and am at fault as well. I know I don't need to take this and I told him last night I was ready to leave. I am only and absolutely only staying around because he needs his daughter in his life and his mom needs to be able to see her granddaughter. He would never ever harm his daughter and she's his only hope.
Hvert,
I've spoken to the detective on the case. He said it's out of my hands state will charge him. I haven't called the hotline I didn't even think about it to be honest. I will give my detective a call and get in touch with someone.
I did a bad thing...I looked at his FB again this morning and he had messages same girl again and told her it was interesting she messaged him this morning because he had a night full of interestingly spicy dreams of her in them. No reply yet from her. So I'm sitting here at work just shaking uncontrollably shaking. I want to text him I'm done right now except he is at pre-trial and that will ruin his day. So instead I messaged her on my FB apologizing for the way I acted in the past and why I did and why I felt Jeff was wrong. I told her I was sorry for being a jealous gf and gave her compliments as well as what I knew as far as conversations one sided by him. I'm trying to bring closure all around and get out before I'm hurt again.
I just figure there is no way I can bring this up to him because I am definitely wrong for looking at his stuff but he is also definitely wrong for doing and saying what he has all in my opinion but maybe I'm also wrong.

Daycia