Wow! I'm a bit disgusted, to be quite honest. I had a relationship go nipples up, partly because I refused sex (yes, and I'm even a guy! SHOCKER! xD) because I didn't feel "ready", comfortable, or trusting enough of the woman. She would get frustrated, keep asking about it, keep trying to seduce me (granted, there were times that was pretty intense, in a good way, but it was also hurtful... mixed emotions lol) and I just started to resent her because she couldn't respect how I wasn't ready and all that. It's not like I wasn't ... involved with her, ... I was most definitely "involved". Ah well. Ho hum. I think maybe I can relate to you in a way... maybe? Hope you have more luck with the next one. xD

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Seriously, I'm disgusted. (in him) Over sex, FFS? Ergh... don't get me wrong, I have man bits, I have plenty of "desires", but to break up with a woman over that, in that way, because she wasn't ready? Harsh... and by text? Brutal. Granted, he didn't ACTUALLY break up with you... you, in effect, broke up with him by not answering his question. Better off without him, to be honest, ... unless there was something else, and you jumped to conclusions. (would totally understand that) Ah, what do I know... I don't the full story.

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Maybe he felt a bit like how I suspect my ex felt... rejected; as though they weren't attractive to the other party, as though they weren't enough.