It's easy to get hurt from not getting seen. And that happens when someone "has all the answers". It happens that someone had a problem and he can't see anything than his own cause and his own solution. So then he tries to tell others to do the same. It's not really him trying to be nasty, but it still hurts because it is projection and makes someone unseen and maybe even told they have feelings they don't and so on. I can see how this is totally triggering. Many people tell me I feel what I don't feel and it makes me lose the ground under my feet.

Still I can't expect them to be perfect. Many people simply cannot see things from another view than their own. I can't tell them to suddenly develop that trait.

What I can do is telling them thanks, but that does not apply to me. And if they continue "knowing me better than I know myself" I can ask them kindly to leave me alone. If they then start up things to be angry with me, I think that is cause for reporting.