I'm still with my 2nd T and we've never talked about the first one because I only saw her once. I don't even think this T knows that I saw the previous (her ex-colleague). Anyway, I definitely will need to talk to my 3rd T about this T because she is really the best and I will not be able to deal when we terminate in Nov.

BTW, I'm so sorry about your experience! It must suck a fat one to get rejected by the people whose job is to help you. I wouldn't worry about them thinking you're badmouthing therapy, because if you were you won't be in it today. Also they should know better than to take it personally because it's true that there are bad eggs in every field. By telling them what you don't like they can learn from it too and provide you with a better healing process.

I sometimes complain about teachers to my T and she looks a little awkward because she works for my school (so she's technically colleagues with the teaching staff). However if the fault really lies with the teacher then she will say, "Huh! I'm so sorry that happened to you, oh no!" or something like that. It makes me feel better! LOL