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Originally Posted by Zwangsstörung
Wow! I'm a bit disgusted, to be quite honest. I had a relationship go nipples up, partly because I refused sex (yes, and I'm even a guy! SHOCKER! xD) because I didn't feel "ready", comfortable, or trusting enough of the woman. She would get frustrated, keep asking about it, keep trying to seduce me (granted, there were times that was pretty intense, in a good way, but it was also hurtful... mixed emotions lol) and I just started to resent her because she couldn't respect how I wasn't ready and all that. It's not like I wasn't ... involved with her, ... I was most definitely "involved". Ah well. Ho hum. I think maybe I can relate to you in a way... maybe? Hope you have more luck with the next one. xD
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Are...are we the same person? You just described exactly what happened with one of my old relationships(I'm a guy too). Pretty crappy things had to end the way they did.
As for the OPs post, I am very sorry that had to happen like that. Nobody deserves to be treated in such a way. And I have to agree with your friend, you cannot know what another person may be capable of and what they may do in the future, and you certainly cannot control it. You did not deserve to be treated that way at all. I hope you feel better.