DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE WHOLE SEX THING!!!!!
IT WILL COME WHEN YOU WANT IT TOO AND SHOULD NOT COME BEFORE THEN. I AGREE WITH MOST THAT YOU NEED TO LEARN ABOUT THE WHOLE SEX THING FIRST. AND DON'T FEEL BAD THAT YOUR STILL A VIRGIN,
NO REAL BIG DEAL, I STILL CONSIDER MYSELF TO BE A VIRGIN AT 35 YEARS OLD. I HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED AND RAPED MANY TIMES BUT I HAVE NEVER ONCE IN MY LIFE HAD WANTED SEXUAL INTERCORSE, SO DON'T FEEL BAD ABOUT THE WHOLE I'M 21,22,OR 23, AND I'M STILL A VIRGIN. LIKE I SAID I'M 35. I JUST HAVEN'T FOUND THE RIGHT GUY THAT I WOULD CHOSE FOR MY SPECIAL MOMENT AND I BELIEVE SEX SHOULD BE SPECIAL. WHEN YOU FIND THE PERFECT SOMEONE YOU WILL JUST START TO HAVE MORE AND MORE FEELING FOR THEM AND THEN ONE THING LEADS TO ANOTHER AND YOUR RELAXED AND FEELING GOOD ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON THAT YOU'LL WANT TO HAVE SEXUAL INTERCORSE WITH SOMEONE AND MAYBE THAT TIME FOR YOU MIGHT BE AFTER YOU GET MARRIED AND YOU'VE SPENT TIME WITH SOMEONE AND YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH THIS PERSON THAT YOU CAN SHARE YOUR FEAR'S AND WORK THEM OUT TOGETHER!!!!!
I KNOW IN THE MEDIA SEX IS LIKE A HAVE TO DO THING AND LETS FACE IT KIDS ARE GETTING YOUNGER AND YOUNGER AND FEEL LIKE THERE FORCED TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE THERE "SUPPOSE TO" BUT IN REAL LIFE NO ONE HAS TO HAVE SEX, IT'S NOT LIKE YOUR GOING TO DIE WITHOUT IT, SO MY BEST ADVICE IS TO 1. LEARN MORE ABOUT SEX 2.FIND OUT WHY YOU HAVE THE FEARS YOU DO AND TRY AND WORK THRU THEM 3. RELAX ABOUT THE WHOLE AGE THING
4. REALLY DECIDE IF THIS GUY YOUR WITH IS RIGHT FOR YOU, (I SAY THAT BECAUSE I BELIEVE YOU SHOULD ONLY HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE YOU REALLY TRULY CARE FOR, SOME PEOPLE MAY YELL AT ME FOR SAYING THAT BUT IT'S WHAT I BELIEVE. AND LAST #5.
DON'T BE IN A HURRY YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU, RELAX, AND BE GOOD TO YOURSELF!!!!
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I HAVE DID, PTSD, MAJOR DEPRESSION, MAJOR ANXIETY, BI POLAR DISORDER, DIABETES
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