Quote:
Originally Posted by hankster
I think you will see how your prior work in t has changed you. Thats how it worked for me. You may find yourself confiding and connecting with her in ways you never did before. Last week i was just eating lunch in a diner, and the busguy (a little old to be called a busBOY) was talking to me. Even a few years ago, friendly and outgoing as i am, i would have been secretly wondering why he was talking to me. Now i know why people talk to me - im as worthy a human as anyone else. I didnt always know that, or feel that. It doesnt sound like much, but its like taking off cement overshoes.
|
Thanks, hankster. I like your post, and you ARE as worthy as anyone else.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Readytostop
Maybe she could help you...help your H think about what he would like to do with his time left while he is still feeling okay...visit people ...travel... Go through pictures ...talk about the past...go down memory lane...
We all should do that...no one knows how much time we have left
|
Thanks, ready. My H does not want to travel; he likes to read so basically that's what he's doing. Yes, we never know when our time is up. I don't know how to balance what I want to do vs what I have to do. Maybe that's a good topic for tomorrow. Plus, I just got triggered by not being told something by some one in my family. Some of my triggers are always there, making me feel bad. So now, LOL, I have too much stuff to talk about, but I want to "sit in T's lap" just a fantasy and have her tell me everything will be all right. Except it won't be.
