Thanks so much for your story . I loved a girl like that too (still do actually). We never dated or anything and she never knew that I loved her, but once I told her she stopped contacting me (it's been 2 years).

I think the same thing would've happened to me if we ever did date, eventually she would have got sick of me, because I'm not the most lovable guy around, and a bit of a moron socially and emotionally. But, I knew she would have improved me though and made me "human" which is what your girl did too in the initial stages of your relationship as I understand it.

It's so true what you say, I don't think we will ever stop loving our "loved ones". It's funny, my loved one also had a short relationship with the type of guy you mentioned. It also hurt me, but you know, I learnt eventually, and as much as it pains me to say this, that it actually speaks volumes about their personality and the type of people they hang out with. Logically, do you think it's healthy to have a relationship with such a person? Suddenly, they seem just as damaged as us in a weird sort of way if you really think about it.