You know what?
Nevermind.
Just forget I said anything, I mistook you for someone willing to see reason, my bad.
I don't come here to waste my time, I come here to offer support and a different perspective. But evidently you do come here to waste time, because not only do you post and reject any ideas different to yours, but I'm not even gonna bother to read past the first paragraph of your response because its completely irrelevant to me. I'm not the one with hangups regarding the demonization of all parents imperfect.
Goodluck, you sincerely need it, as help clearly isn't an option for you.
Ciao
Ps. You may want to include that you only seek agreeable responses on all your threads. Saves people like me from wasting our time trying to reach out.