First, you weren't being argumentative at all. It doesn't sound like his methods were working for you...and I don't think you were being rude at all...it just sounds like you were frustrated. I would be frustrated with that approach as well. Real depression isn't about "worrying about life's circumstances"...depression needs real therapy and real treatment because you can't positive-think it away! And you are not being a bother to him; it's his job to help you. Can you find another T better suited to help you?